Kyon??

Kyon duniya yaad dilati hai
Woh beete huye din?
Woh din,
Jo hare kar deti hain saare zakhmon ko,
Jinhe yaad karke
Hoti hai dil mein chubhan
Aur beh jate hai
Aankhon se woh aansu
Jo aur kuch nhi
Hain dil ki zubaan.

Kyon duniya yaad dilati hai
Unn baaton ko?
Woh baatein
Jo yaad dilati hain humein
Ki humare andar kuch toh kami hai...
Bhale hi woh kuch bhi ho
Rang, roop yaa kuch aur
par ye duniya nhi hichkichati
humein yeh sab yaad dilane mein.


Aksar main socha karti hoon
Kyon duniya humein yeh yaad nhi dilati
Ki bhale hum dusron jaise achhe nhi
Par kabilyat toh hummein bhi hai
Bhale hi hum
Na ho ameer paison se
Jinhe duniya Sar utha kar dekhti hai
par hum toh hain dil ke ameer
Jo unke har taane ko hasi mein uda dete hain
Hum toh hain aise ameer
Jinke paas bhale hi ho paison ki kami
Par dusron ki madad karne se hichkihate nhi
Naa ki unn logon jaise
Jinke paas hai toh bahut kuch
Par phir bhi dusron ki khushi dekhi nahi jaati


Aksar main sochti hoon
Kyon duniya yaad nhi dilati humein
Ki hum sab mein sundarta basti hai
Kyon nhi yaad dilati duniya ki sab
Jaise hain, Achhe hai
Ishwar ki kriti hain,
Kyon nhi yaad dilati duniya humein,
ki agar koi cheez maayn rakhti hai
toh woh hain humare sanskaar aur dil
Aur na ki rang aur roop


Par main ab yeh sochti hoon
Agar duniya yaad dilayi hoti humein yeh sab baatein
Toh kya aaj mere mann mein yeh khayal aata
Ki kyon duniya yaad dilati hai humein woh saari baatein?

Why are you always on my mind?

Why are you always on my mind?

I end up thinking about you all the time

It feels like it happened yesterday

When U and I were best of friends

When U and I talked the whole day

Though we were small kids that time

But the emotions were real

Because we were far away

From the world of double standards

We were so happy

Our love for each other was true

Our love for each other was selfless

But the fate has other plans

It wants to teach something new

Even though we want or not 

May be that is why 

You left me and never turned again

I can't declare you guilty 

For it was not your choice

It was just that the fate had other plans

Even today when I look back at those memories

I think about our good times

And also I dream about the future

If we could meet again

If we could recognize each other or not

If we could hug each other the way we did

Or will the time prove itself 

The strongest of all 

And become a barrier between us.

I keep wondering this all the time

Now you know

I keep thinking about you all the time

But still fail to understand

Why are you always on my mind?

Did this happen to you also?

Hi friends. I am back. I just wanted to know if anything like this happened with you also or not? In fact I want to share my experience with you and you tell me if you could relate it with you or not. Or simply it happened with you or not.

So did it ever happened with you that whatever you wanted was falling into place. You wanted someone's attention and the person was by your side. You wanted to spend time with someone and that person was ready for it and you spent a good quality time together. Did this ever happened that you had a huge crush on someone and he proposed you as if he read your mind. Things going exactly as you wanted. You are very excited and happy at the same time. You couldn't believe it but it is happening. And then you try to ask yourself, actually your heart, can yo believe it. And then, BAMMM... Your alarm clock waking you up and making you realize that it was just a dream. You were so excited then and now, You realize that it was a piece of your imagination.


Did this ever happened with you... If yes then please share with me.. You can message me on my facebook page with the same name- Joy in the third world. You can also message me in my personal inbox. Waiting to know your experiences as well.



So will meet you in my next post. Till then take care and share love.

Stranger.

Hello friends I am back.....
So as I promised, I will be sharing stories with you. The stories as I said were to be real ones but there is no harm on writing fictional ones also. So here we go with the first one-

This is a true story. Its just that the names have been changed. And a declaration from my side- " All the names mentioned in this stories are fictional and any similarity is co- incidental." I know so many things happen with us and there are many things which are the same. So one of them is this story------


Finally I got the chance to be independent. Yaay... My new life begins.. I was so happy that now I will be shifting to Mumbai for my Masters in Mass Com. So after all the formalities from my home town (my parents n family came to the railway station to see off), now I am ready to deal with the world. I boarded the train, got my seat and arranged my luggage. Till then my family was with me but soon it was the time for my train to start and therefore my family got down. The train finally started and my family stood there on the platform watching me go. I saw them through the AC window. Though it was not clear. The moment was a heavy one because all these years I have stayed with them and now I was alone. But I didn't feel bad. Since I have stayed in Mumbai with my parents in my school days, it was not a new city for me. Thats why I somehow managed to go there alone even after their requests to come with me to drop me.

All these things were going in my mind when the train got its speed. It was fast. It was morning and the train started from my hometown itself, there were only a few passengers.And I was the only passenger in my cabin. There was nothing much to do basically. I hardly got network on my phone so I started reading on Kindle. The book was 2 States. Time passed by and it was afternoon. I was served my lunch by the Pantry people that I ordered. Even till then, I was the only passenger in my cabin. Though there was one old lady on the side berth. We had a chit chat while having lunch and then it was around 3 when she excused to take a nap. And me..... I continued with the novel. Time passed again and I took a break. I looked out of the window and it was beautiful. What could be better than a summer evening. I was around 5 and the sky was a mixture of blue, orange, red. pink,a bit or purple and yellow... It was the time when our train stopped at a station for I think 10 minutes. I was still busy watching the sky and I decided as soon as the train will leave the platform, I will go to the door and watch the perfection of nature. While I was deciding all this in my head, finally I got a co passenger. Oh my God I was so happy,  Finally there will be someone to talk to. And then I was even more happy that the co passenger was, as it seemed, was around my age only. And another reason for my happiness- He was really cute. I was sitting on my berth and after arranging his luggage, he also sat down in front of me. The train started. We smiled at each other and then he started the conversation. He introduced himself first and then I introduced. His name was Sidharth. It was around 5 minutes only that we started chatting when I realized that I had some other plans. I looked out of the window and saw the sky was even more beautiful. I wanted to see it without the dirt in the glass. I therefore directly changed the topic. I Directly questioned- "Isn't the sky really beautiful today?" and he said yes it is. I didn't want to be rude therefore I changed the topic. I told him that I will just go and take a clear look at the beautiful evening. Actually I wanted to live that evening. So I took an excuse and I went to the door area, opened them and there it was. I  didn't realize but there was a really big smile on my face. The cool breeze of the evening sky was such a delight. I standing there at the side. My hair was coming on my face but no worries I just wanted to live that moment. Actually I was not even able to think anything at that moment. I just wanted to live that moment. It was just 2 or 3 minutes when Sidharth also joined me. We were standing there facing each other. I was quiet but he spoke- "It is a beautiful evening indeed.." I smiled. Both of us ended up smiling and living that moment. It was later that I realized that my kurti had been waving with the wind almost exposing my waist. When I realized that I got extremely conscious. He also understood that I had realized what had happened. He told that he was tired and he would go back . He told me to enjoy my evening and come. So many things were going around in my head and I finally came to a conclusion that it was okay. C'mmon we live in a modern world and this is fine. And he is a stranger. I don't have to meet him again so  replied him. Actually requested him that it was alright. Hey should not miss this beautiful evening. We both smiled and enjoyed the evening. I was never this bold to let my kurti wave though it was exposing my waist and do nothing. My hair was coming to my face but still I didn't care to move it away. I just wanted to live that moment with that cute stranger. It was a bit dark. The sun was dark red. The birds were moving. That was a really beautiful evening. I was thinking in my head oh please come and move the hair off my face. And it happened. After some time just waved them off but that was of no use. Both of us this time ended up laughing.

Our train turned and we lost the sun so we came back to our seats. There I came to know that he was also going to Mumbai. And I was shocked that he was going to the same institute for masters where i was going and that too in the same course. I was shocked to my nerves. But I calmed down later and thought that its okay.

Its 3 months that I am here and we are kind of best friends. Really really good friends.

I never knew that this stranger whom I met 3 months back will become a really important person in my life.    


                  

An important information.

Hi friends. Hope You are doing good. After a long gap, it seems, I have returned. Actually I was trying to search some good topics on which I should write. They can be anything. And the most common things in our lives is the emotional confusion and stuff. I was thinking about it for a past few days. I was wondering if sharing the things going on in my life will be a good idea or not but then finally I realized that I am not the only one in the world who is going through all these things. So I thought why not. I thought it would be a good idea  to share my experiences with people. Who knows they might also be going through same situations and don't know how to react on it. Also many happens in our lives also which teaches us something. And we learn from bad experiences. But I don't want that everyone should go through that pain to actually learn the lesson of life. Therefore, I will be writing on Social as well as Emotional issues and also I invite you to share your experience with me. I would like to present it to the world (obviously identity will be hidden) so that others don't fall in the same pit as we did. After all, this is our life and we cannot always commit mistakes only to learn the lessons. We should learn from people around us who have bravely survived the problems which life brought in front of them.

See you on Sunday. And please friends don't hesitate to share your story. Your story can save lives of many. The identity will be hidden but if you want to reveal it, it will be revealed as per your wish. You can message me your story on my facebook page.  The link is given below.

https://www.facebook.com/Joyinthethirdworld/

What is happening?? Is it?

Hi friends. Hope you are fine. As you saw the topic, by now you must be sure that this girl is going through a problem or has a doubt or something. Yes friends you are right!! I think i have fallen in love.... With my childhood friend. Actually, if I talk about my childhood, it is incomplete without him. But we have something called life also which has its own plans, When I was 8, I had to leave that place because of the transferable job of my dad but i used to visit that place every year.And whenever we met,we didn't really care about what the world is thinking about us. In those days we young children were not exposed to the internet world so we could only talk when we met. But one fine year, when we went to that city, we found out that he has to shift from that place. Though we were there when he left that place and when he was leaving , i felt as if a part of my soul is going away. Moments later my best time became my worst time. Actually its not easy to sit on that same place where you both played all the time, sang songs and danced. It is difficult because the place is same but your partner is not there.
You wont believe me but since then,we have not met. We are totally strangers now, I dont even know he stays in which corner of the world today and if he remembers also that he had a childhood friend. I think I have fallen in love with him.. I think so......

Is this really love?

Happy down the way

Hey friends I am sorry for not posting for quite a long time. I am sure you will laugh at me after knowing the reason. The reason is that I am lazy.... Really lazy. Is that a similarity between us? Okay, I know you are smiling and I am pretty sure your smile will get wider once you read what is the blog today all about.. Well its about being loved... Really it feels so good. Especially by the person you have known for years. Both of you knew the feeling inside you but never really spoke it out. Well its nothing like you are thinking... No one proposed me and I dont really have those special guy friends.. Anyways still I am talking about it because I dont know why I feel it in my imagination. Let me tell you, I am pretty good at it and I am sure you are also. Everybody is. Especially when it comes to love.. We have our own thoughts, views etc which make us dream all the time... Sleep so that we can officially enter in our dream world and imagine how it would have been.. Close your eyes and see his or her face!!
Hmmmmm..  I am smiling right now also. I think I am an idiot. A big one.. Always in my dream world. But it brings and big smile on my face and fill me with positivity. And thats why I keep dreaming all the time.


Friends, I know someone is made for us but it is not necessary that we have met them. We will meet them someday but till then, I dont think its a wrong idea to dream about your prince charming or your princess. An when the time will come something will strike you attesting to you that he or she is the one. But friends, please keep in mind, to find your love you have to search for them from your heart and not your brain. Go for internal beauty because external beauty is deceptive. And who knows, your soulmate was right in front of you all the time but you analyzed him or her with your eyes and not with your heart. So friends, keep going on share your experiences with me. I would love to read them. Also you can share your problems and views with me. I would love to help you with whatever I can. And if you dont feel like commenting, you can also message me on facebook .

So till then keep the eyes of your heart wide open. Who knows you will find your love standing in front of you and disturbing you all the time.......

So friends, Share your love with the world..
Bbye.... Take care friends

The lesson

Hi friends. Hope you are doing good. Well its quite a long time back that I wrote something here. I felt like sharing whatever is going on my mind and the condition I am facing in my life. Well  I am 20 and now I really think that I can understand the real intentions of people around me. Intention is not that criminal one but still normal things which we face... Saying something else and thinking something else. It doesn't really matters when when the people who are not really important in our life do it to us or behave weirdly with us but I really affects and stays with us for a really long time when a person who is really special in your does that. It happened with me also and the worst part.. Many of them did that at the same time. I really felt bad. It seemed as if they don't have any respect for me. It seemed that I was worthless to the. It seemed like I was only there to agree to their opinions . It seemed like I just knew too many people around me. I was not treated as a friend. I always wanted to be good to everyone. There were times when I was also angry but I never shouted at anyone. In fact, I wanted to make everything clear with civilized talks. But as they say, God also puts forward the toughest situations to teach you something. He put forward that situation. I used to remember everyone's birthday may it be friends or family. But destiny chose something else for me. I want to share this with you because I cant keep this to myself anymore. My mind feels really saturated right now and I just feel like spitting it out. Actually I have some 5 or 6 friends who are really special to me. They  are not best friends (I wonder if I will have even one or not) but still we sit together. it was my birthday last month and I thought that even I will be given a special treatment on my special day. My family wished me in the morning which was a good start for the day but when I reached my college, things changed. I went there expecting that my friends would wish me. I went there and they asked for some notes. I thought that they will give me a surprise but no. Actually I am not a really good student but generally I make notes. But that day, I didn't. Obviously I was excited for my big day. When they came to know that I didn't prepare notes, they just went to their different world. They started shouting at me bla bla and what not. If it would have been a normal day, I would,t have felt so bad but then on my birthday, I don't deserve to be treated like this. We had 2 lectures that day. Both lectures were done and I didn't talk to them even once. Nor they were interested. I came back home and locked myself in my bathroom. You guessed it right I was crying. Obviously I didn't want my parents to know this but I was really kind of depressed. I really questioned God " Why me on my birthday?"  But the worst was yet to come. I really had a good friend from my school. I thought he would wish me at least,,, But but but... He remembered that it was my birthday but he refused to call me and wish. He just gave a really fake reason for not calling me and I understood it. Even I left the whatsapp conversation politely. :( :(

I was really depressed thinking that I was not really important in anyone's life but then my this conception broke at the end of the day. All my family members and relatives in some way or the other form round the world wished me and tried to make my day really special. They treated me like their little princess. They pampered me and whoever were in the city came t my residence. They lifted up my mood.

That day I understood one thing.. It is a fact that your friends cam never take the place of your family because the moment you become a competition to your friends, they leave or misbehave with you but family doesn't. Family always stands with you in all situations. They are genuinely happy when you achieve something and they genuinely stand with you in your bad times.

Well I think God wanted to teach me this lesson. It took some time for me to understand it but finally I understood.....

What is life?

Hey friends, hope you are doing good. Its me Sunshine with a new thought i my mind which I wanted to share. As everyone of us have faced being a beginner on blogger is not easy. Initially I was very very excited to be a part of it and share my views with everyone. I was even more happy to see the stats and realise that yes, people are watching my post. But later, my only motto to open my account was to check how many people have gone though my posts. It took some time for me to understand why I was not happy for my blog and it was later that I realised that the main intention for me to create my blog was lost. I created my blog to share my views but later I just maintained it to check the stats. Now that I have realised it, I am sort of relieved and happy again. 

Now you must be thinking what is the relation of the content with the title. So friends, I feel that lfe is all about learning. It teaches something at every stage... actually everyday and it is totally up to us that we grab it or not. Friends there will be bad times in our life but it is up to us what we make of it and how we treat it. We may lose our confidence and feel like a loser when everyone seems to criticize us for one or the other thing. There might be a time also when we work really hard on some tasks or issues but don't get desired results. We may feel life is being very harsh on us but that is the time we have to think positive. If we assume that situation to be a gift of the Almighty to teach some really important lesson then we are halfway done with it. Or if we assume that life has provided us with bad situation because our Creator knew we can handle it and win over it with flying colours. So friends, I just wanted to say that we should be positive no matter what the situation is.. Isn't it the biggest lesson of life?? Do share your views.

Hola Friends!!!

Hope you are doing well. This is a "just like that post" friends. I just wanted to write down actually share my new routine life with you all and I am really happy with my new routine. It feels like its a new life. So I wanted to share this out with you so that you can also apply this to your routine if you wish. So friends this change came into my life with the introduction of a planner. I got daily, weekly and monthly planner for me and believe me friends it is awesome. With planners, I can actually jot down my activities for the day and at the end of the day I review them if I did everything on time as per my expectations or not. It has now become an important part of my life and I thought that I should share this with you. Have a nice day!!!

What is love?

Hey friends. Hope you are doing great. So today is the big day it seems for which I think we youngsters wait the whole year, right? We wait for it to confess our love and spent quality time, isn't it. But I dont know if I am right or wrong but I feel that we don't actually understand what love is. Yes friends, I feel that way. It is because I have seen how we misunderstood love. What is it? It is that you saw a beautiful girl or a handsome boy and felt attracted towards them and felt he or she is the perfect person for you? Or is it that all your other friends have their boyfriends and girlfriends and you are single, and that's why you are just desperate to have someone? Is it? Or is it that you have a really good friend and you feel jealous seeing him or her with someone else.... Well I feel that is love because for love I think the most important thing or emotion which has to be present between both of you is Respect for each other. And the next thing is "mutual understanding". Unless and until both of the above are present, the relationship will not survive. So this Valentine's Day, ask your heart if you really really love your partner or you are together just because of any social pressure or environment. After all "heart is no toy to play with, instead it should be handled with care........."


Happy Valentine's Day friends..................







Friends, I am really sorry, there is some problem. I dont know why my account is not going in with the sync with actual date and time. Here, in India, it is Sunday, 14th Feb and 10:26 am but I dont know why the account is showing something else as posting date and time. Really sorry for that.

Anyways, enjoy the day of love with the ones you really love......... 

So there you are!!!

Hey friends. I really want to share a few thoughts going in my mind with you. Actually my vacations are going on right now and in my holidays and this tie I thought of exploring things and I ended up exploring movies that too romantic one. Actually thats what a girl wants. Isn't it?
 I didn't get a chance to watch a lot of movies but I managed to watch some. And one of them which really touched my heart was "16 Wishes". Yes friends. I might appear a bit childish but thats what I am. I watched that movie and I was touched. I literally cried when she had to go home alone and she cried. But it ended on a super cute note when the best friends ended up realizing that they have fallen for each other. I watched this movie and after doing so I really really really wished that it would have been really great if even I also had a best friend who is a male and takes care of me and the most important, listens to me. Oooo I am so in love with the concept of best friends. Actually , I feel this relationship is the best bond people can have. It sees no boundaries and the best thing, it doesn't end up giving you tons of responsibilities. When I think of all this, a big smile comes to my face and I feel loved. After all, friends also love each other right?? Not always we have girlfriend- boyfriend love between a girl and a boy.  I know after reading this you also smiled and you remembered the warm times you have spent with him or her. It really soothes our mind and heart.

Friends please suggest me some more movies of this kind and I request you also to watch them and feel happy. Also friends please share your thoughts and stories/experiences about friendship and love. You can always comment your views below.

Take care friends, I will be back with some other stuff the next time. Till then, take care....  


                                                                                                            Bbyeee. with lots of love.
                                                                                                                  Sunshine

Express it before its late!!!

Hey friends. Hope you are fine. So.. Valentine's Day is round the corner and as we all know, a Valentine week starts one week prior to Valentine's Day. So many days are celebrated like hug day, gift day, kiss day, propose day and what not. So today is Propose Day. Many people wait for this day to express their love and feelings. And if not this day then Valentine's Day is standing for sure. It feels really great when the whole atmosphere is filled with love. Actually it is the time when everything seems to be great. One tends to smile without any reason and feels butterflies in the stomach. It indeed is a great time. So if you are one of those people who wants to confess their love  so today is the best day friends. Actually every day should be considered the best but today, it is meant to make proposals. Sooooo... If you have feelings for someone, take up your phone and call him or her. Confess your love friends and you can meet them in person, go ahead. Nothing could be better than that. Express it before its late.

But actually, there are many of us like me!! Single.. And in my case, I feel like I am a permanent single... We also admire someone (probably our crushes) to propose us but sadly, it doesn't go as we want. No worries friends. We can still enjoy the day of love with our friends (who are singles of course) right. We can go out for movies and lunch with them. Of course, we will see couples everywhere we should remain positive. After all, God has chosen the best match for us and I think its alright if they come in our life a little late. 

So friends, enjoy this season of love the way you want so that you can proudly say you are happy

Joy In The Third World

Hello friends. Its me Sunshine and this is my new blog . As the name suggests, I feel life is all about being happy in all situations of life. I really think whatever our age is , there is always a kid who lives in our hearts who is pure and innocent. The kid gets excited when exposed to new things and jumps with joy when something good happens. This place is for reviving such emotions and letting yourself free as if nothing is binding on you. I have read some books and watched some movies during my vacations and realized that I have changed.My interests have changed. But I was wrong. I realized that I was the same since childhood. Its just that I forgot to live the way I wanted. I forgot how to express my emotions. I forgot that my joy was in expressing my emotions and letting go off the difficulties of life. It is only after my vacations that I rediscovered myself and found the real me. Friends I will be sharing my emotions and the things which makes me feel happy and I also want your participation in this. Even I want to know new things which makes you happy and try it. After all, the real satisfaction is is being happy. Thats the primary lesson of life right?? Do share your opinions with me friends. Its free.